Eulogy for Harold C. Bohn, March 1, 1982
Eulogy for Harold C. Bohn
It is death that has brought us here. The death of a good and gentle man. We are here today, all of us, because this good and gentle man found his way into our hearts, and somehow, in ways unique to each of us, ennobled us with the gift of his life. We dare not let this moment pass, even in our grief, without trying to find the words to express our sense of loss and to remind ourselves that while he was with us we knew ourselves to be graced by that mystery of humane otherness without which our own lives are diminished, even starved. Indeed, we dare not let this moment pass, even in our grief, without trying to find the words to celebrate, with deep thanksgiving, this truly human life that was lived out among us, that touched us deeply and, in touching us, brought us a little closer to the heart of things.
I knew Harold Bohn only briefly. Yet, in Ms openness I came to know him well. It did not take me long to realize that he was a man of exceptional gifts and achievements. I came quickly to appreciate how deeply and passionately he was committed to the struggle for excellence. He believed in the finer things of life, as he would sometimes say, and he held up for himself and those who were drawn to him as scholar-teacher the highest standards of civilized learning. In that regard, I'm sure, it was not easy for some to be in his presence. For those who are willing to settle for the unexamined life, the dull and commonplace life, the life that lacks the depth of spirit, Harold Bohn would not have pleased them. But I dare say, there are many here today who were called to greater things because of the inspiration of his personhood. Because he dared to speak and act in the name of intellectual and spiritual excellence, and because he placed himself under the discipline of that calling and bore the weight of it with- grace and dignity, we must express our gratitude. And with his death, we cannot help but ask whether future generations of students will be so fortunate as to be taught by men and women of Harold Bohn's stature.
Harold Bohn was also a man of faith. It was no simple, naive faith that he embodied. It was a searching faith, a profound faith and his faith sustained him as perhaps no other aspect of his life. There are many here whose faith has been deepened by their knowing him. In a culture which has increasingly rejected the quest for faith, living instead "as if questions" of ultimate reality can be safely evaded, Harold Bohn was something of an anomaly a man of intellect who was also a man of faith. He was pained by the loss of faith in our time. Perhaps with his death we have been brought closer to the end of an Age, the end of the Christian era in the intellectual, social, political and spiritual life of America. Perhaps our culture will not soon produce the likes of Harold Bohn again. The thought makes me tremble. And yet, does not his death inspire us to return to the ultimate questions again, to take up the search again with renewed vigor for that ultimate mystery that surrounds us and makes us fully human?
Many of you were privileged to know Harold Bohn's friendship much longer than I did. I can only imagine how great is your loss as you stand before his death at this moment. But I would ask you to remember, if you can, that his gift of friendship to you has not been annihilated by his death. The beauty, the spirit, the sensitivity, the deep concern he shared with you is now a part of the fabric of your very lives. Draw upon these things he left you and they will serve you well.
Harold Bohn gave unselfishly of himself. He helped to build the good community. And yet, one of the things that he prized most in his life was his own family. No doubt he was torn at times between the claims of the larger world and his commitment to his marriage and fatherhood and grandfatherhood. Our effort to honor him now would not be complete, however, without reminding our selves that just as he nurtured so many of us, so he nurtured his own family, and we would say to you who knew him as father and grandfather: thank you for sharing him with us. We are with you in your loss.
In Shakespeare's The Merchant of Venice, Jessica says to Lorenzo: "I am never merry when I hear sweet music." And Lorenzo replies:
The reason is, your spirits are attentive:
For do but note a wild and wanton herd,
Or race of youthful and unhandled colts,
Fetching mad bounds, bellowing and neighing loud,
Which is the hot condition of their blood;
If they but hear perchance a trumpet sound,
Or any air of music touch their ears,
You shall perceive them make a mutual stand,
Their savage eyes turn'd to a modest gaze
By the sweet power of music: therefore the poet
Did feign that Orpheus drew trees', stories and floods;
Since nought so stockish, hard and full of rage,
But music for the time doth change his nature.
The man that hath no music in himself,
Nor is not moved with concord of sweet sounds,
Is fit for treasons, stratagems and spoils;
The motions of his spirit are dull as night,
And his affections dark as Erebus;
Let no such man be trusted. Mark the music.
Harold Bohn had the music in him. And that's why we loved him; that's why we trusted him, and that's why we feel his loss so profoundly at this moment.
We hear your music, Harold and your song will not soon disappear from our lips.
Amen.
March 1, 1982
Dr. Donard R. Ferrell First Congregational Church
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